by Mama's Girl
(Toronto)
About 2 and a half to 3 years ago my mom had lap-band surgery. She lost over 120 pounds and now sits at what she considers a good weight for herself, 125 pounds. However, she has a lot of trouble keeping ANY food down at all sometimes and this is really worrying.
Sometimes, she forces herself to throw up because she says that the food is hurting her stomach so much she can't take it. She tells my family this is due to stress, however I know that maintaining her weight is very important to her. She never wants to gain back what she lost and is willing to do anything to keep her current weight.
When she gains five pounds, she goes in and gets her lap-band tightened so that she will lose it again, however this is usually through the process of barely eating (as all she can usually keep down is liquids - water, coffee and soup).
Should I be worried about my mom? I really think this issue is serious, but I don't know if her stomach issues are actually due to stress or simply her way of forcing herself to lose weight?